My Thanksgiving Ideas & Reasons to be Thankful for

MY THANKSGIVING IDEAS & REASONS TO BE THANKFUL FOR

Its days like this that have me thankful for the life I have been able to live & sympathetic to those who have been struggling in the real world. After moving to Arizona I have been struggling to overcome a number of hurdles I forgot existed.  I forgot about how book educated people make life so difficult for others.  I forgot about how much more work & effort they create for themselves because they never learned any other way.  Its a lesson I always have to relearn whenever I move back to the real  world.  Since moving to Arizona I have been miserable, but its also very sobering realizing how ungrateful I have been the last 90 days or even year.  Exchanging Thanksgiving ideas yesterday prompted today’s post.

MY THANKSGIVING IDEAS & REASONS TO BE THANKFUL FOR

Secret waterfall hikesSince I left North Carolina last fall I really haven’t had a job, and have traveled over 20,000 miles in the last year.  I broke my hand on opening day last year forcing me to retreat back to MN to rely on unemployment and savings.  After that I was fortunate enough to find cheap housing & employment that barely paid the bills.  So I elected to skip ski season for a third year in a row to have a better chance at funding my AO Loop Trip in the spring.  It doesn’t look like that has much of a chance anymore.  I have been stuck in neutral for over a year now.  Searching the states and scouring the internet for a sustainable income to clear my unwanted debt & move closer to  the freedom I have grown accustomed to.

MY THANKSGIVING IDEAS & REASONS TO BE THANKFUL FOR

In the last year I have moved from North Carolina to Minnesota to Idaho to Montana to Arizona.  I’ve spent long weekends hiking Hood River, Glacier National Park, Johnson Shut-ins, Lake Pend Oreille & the Grand Canyon.  I spent my birthday in Las Vegas with my brother, and have connected with two old friends that I lost contact with years ago.  I have purchased a dune buggy and commuted from Arizona to Minnesota to get in my brothers hands before the AO Loop Trip.  I’ve road tripped through some of the most iconic landscape America has to offer in the last 12 months, and I’ve done all this because of my hard work in North Carolina two summers ago.

Thanksgiving Ideas for being thankful

MY THANKSGIVING IDEAS & REASONS TO BE THANKFUL FOR

I’ve basically been living off of savings & scraping to get by every month so as not to default on my monthly obligations.  In the last 90 days while I have been looking for employment to break this cycle I have been fortunate enough to provide an income playing poker while looking for a restaurant job.  I’ve also been fortunate enough to be awarded online gigs off of freelance websites to help generate some income in this struggle to find employment & keep the bills paid.  Depending on how you look at it its fortunate that I have been in this situation before so I know what resources to tap into, and find creative solutions to keep things a float until something does come along.

MY THANKSGIVING IDEAS & REASONS TO BE THANKFUL FOR

Thanksgiving decoration IdeasThanksgiving is a time for reflection and gratitude.  Neither of which I have been doing a lot of lately.  I’ve been so caught up in my frustrations of not being able to get what I want I’ve forgotten what I have.  A family that dearly loves me, and a life that can afford to travel America with no actual real income for over a year.  Its been unfortunate that Arizona wasn’t more beneficial to my personal goals, but if I take a step back Arizona has done more then I give it credit for.  I now own a dune buggy, 50 year license & have been smoke free for almost 2 weeks.  Two of those I haven’t been able to accomplish in 39 years, and Arizona has allowed me to do it 90 days.  Check out my quit smoking blog.

MY THANKSGIVING IDEAS & REASONS TO BE THANKFUL FOR

No one likes to admit failure, or put themselves in a worse situation but my time in Arizona is done.  Today I wake on this Thanksgiving weekend away from the mountains, away from the crisp winter air & away from family & passions.  Instead of sitting at a table with friends or family I spent another Thanksgiving among strangers that educated me on the dangers of an uninvited scorpion.   Instead of hitting the slopes I am reading emails from employers that want me to participate in reading, writing, math & phone tests for their $10/hr job.

MY THANKSGIVING IDEAS & REASONS TO BE THANKFUL FOR

Today is the first I have woke with excitement and energy since moving to Phoenix Arizona because I am leaving the desert for the mountains.whitefish montana main street in the fall  I am thankful I can pack up and head off to the unknown with confidence that something will pan out.  I know I will be more comfortable surrounded by mountains and snow then multi car accidents & rush hour traffic.  I’m thankful I have a few close friends that know me better than I do to encourage & support a decision that will be better for me than miserably hanging out in the desert waiting to catch lighting in a bottle.

MY THANKSGIVING IDEAS & REASONS TO BE THANKFUL FOR

Unfortunately my funds are dwindling so this move has to productive, or everything I have worked for will quickly become unraveled.  That can’t be my focus because that’s not what Thanksgiving is about.  I have to remind myself how fortunate I am with the ability to travel anywhere I would like and call it home.  I have to also remind myself how many different places I have traveled to since 1998 that most will never have the opportunity too.  For some just seeing the Grand Canyon is a bucket list item, and I can’t get away from it fast enough.  Its a humbling reflection when you look at my travel accomplishments as a whole, and something I need to be eternally grateful for.

MY THANKSGIVING IDEAS & REASONS TO BE THANKFUL FOR

Thanksgiving Ideas for being thankfulThis is where my focus needs to be this Thanksgiving.  I wish all of you Happy Holidays, and hope you get to spend them among friends and family.  What are you thankful for this year.  Leave it in the comments below.  Got any good Thanksgiving ideas about things to do this holiday season?  With Family? Friends?  Are you a black Friday participant, or do you prefer family time at home?  Use the comments below share your Thanksgiving reflections, or other Thanksgiving ideas.

 

 

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